A couple
of Sundays ago I went for confession with a bit of a secondary motive. For some
time now, my leg has been hurting and a few other complaints began to pile on.
Since I would have the father all by myself in the confessional, I thought it
would not be inappropriate to ask for his prayers when the confession was over.
I did so and he did agree to add me to his prayers after ascertaining the
nature of my illness, that it wasn't anything life-threatening or anything. He
also gave me a bit of advice: do not clash with your illness, rather make it
your friend.
Later,
after some reflection I saw that this mirrors the final state of affairs in the
Babadook. You may not be able to get rid of it, but you can get into some sort
of understanding.
In horror
movies, the last surviving would-be victim, manages to fight off the menacing
evil power, at least for a time, but seldom, as far as I can recall, does she
stop to confront it on equal terms. In the Babadook, Amelia does so and
surprisingly she isn't snuffed out as one would expect, but both accept the new
state of affairs. She still doesn't like him, but that doesn't mean they can be
partners. Had the book never come to her family's attention, she would still be stuck in her hopeless situation. Now, at the movie's resolution, everything has turned to the better, the Babadook the catalyst she and her boy needed.
In
Catholicism there is such a thing as redemption by suffering where one chips
in, however feebly or modestly, with redemption by offering one's suffering,
taking one's cross, and offering it to God. In this way, I've come to the
conclusion that one indeed can become friends with one's sickness. As with the
Babadook, one doesn't have to like it, but if a way out is not forthcoming, not
only does one do not strengthen it by fighting it (being anxious about it), but
one can reap otherworldly benefits by its acceptance. Amelia at the end of the
movie intimates to Samuel that in due time he would get to see what's in the
basement. Likewise for us.
The fit
isn't perfect but both sickness and Babadook touch so many common points that I
thought to flag them.
If you
would like to know more about redemption by suffering check out episode 11 (2/18/05) of
the podcast Ignition on your favorite
podcast catcher.
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Podcast Addict)
